Is however a promise to tag along a common path a denial of one of both to follow her own path? And how could possibly be otherwise?
an invisible part of our nature has been cut off from us in our modern life aseptic housing. Aseptic in a metaphorical sense but also in a microbiological sense too.
very much as with preparing Panna cotta—you will have to wait a few hours to enjoy it—marrying will become bearable and even enjoyable one or two decades after the vows were given, if at all.